Those People...

You know who I'm talking about. The people who have to give you a piece of mind for every single thing you do. Usually not in the "good opinion" section of how you process their words. Usually seems negative. Well, if you got these people on you back daily, the best way to throw them off guard is to start agreeing with them. Then, disagree. Throw them off course. They need to get that so-called problem of theirs off your back. You didn't cause their current situation. If you did, go apologize today.

And that's Real.

Whine and Fined

Thinking back to original work and time.
When you put your money in your mouth and got quality results,
those results allowed you to get the benefits of a better life.
A happy boss = a happy upgrade. (At least most of the time.)
Not everyone can get these upgrades easily.
You got to stand out.
No matter the profession, when your cornered in too often you will feel the aches.
A happy you = a happy everyone else. (usually.)
Some might not enjoy your good day with you.
Not your problem, but don't rub anything in any one's face.
Share is caring. Caring is daring. (......)

Bite bullets, Save the day, and most importantly Remain humble.
Your mission in life shouldn't be to be the best.
You will always lose that battle.
Be your best. Now that says a lot more, no?

And that's Real Talk.

The Beating of a Life Driven by Insanity

What is it to be driven by the things we lust, yearn, and could die for?

Passion is a word better known for smell, desire, and any beginning title for a product used best to make the nights a little more interesting.

The idea of passion though is to connect to us in a way we feel this moment in time is perfect.
It can be turned into greater or worse.

Passion, however, could be the one thing that turns you from yourself to your alter-ego.
This alter-ego has no-holds-barred written all over its forehead.

In life we strive to accomplish many dreams. Some praised, others frowned upon.
Regardless of the matter, the passion we have inside of us can be the one thing to make us or break us.

In workforce, living matters, and love-related; this passion we build up comes from childhood, builds in teen years to get a more precise idea, and then turns into the final product.

For some of us, it means to reach our current position in life, and others to give more of a way to get where we need to be.

Passion will take you far, and as long as you don't let it become the entire prospect of things, can show to be very enriching.

Taking matters into your own hands is mainly driven from passion in the soul.
We can be idolized and get the content feeling of satisfaction, or we can build a dream from the stone in the ground to the skyscraper in the air.

Passion is one thing we can all agree is a driving force in our lives and will determine how far we go, including any backtracks or hold-ups.

Today, is the day to let your passions come alive and get you somewhere into a place of satisfaction.

The photo-shoots, the complete paintings, the finished products, the recording studios, the show-cases tonight, and even the accounts squared between two business ready to make things go up and steady.

Some of us might not have anything going on currently to apply this idea, but if this is the case be aware that time is of importance. Today is to start this project. Today you don't need a million things done. Today you just need the blueprint. Worry about the rest tomorrow.

The more you fill your plate with food, the harder it becomes to chew and eat.
Then again, the more you try to eat when there's nothing on the plate, becomes a starving situation.

Keep your eyes open and up to the sky.
The limit you hold, is on your own terms.
Be your own champion, so others have something to inspire them.

And that's Real.

Living life on Crutches...

Too many times you can say to yourself,
I need to be my own person. I need to have my own things.

Positive and Negatives can play major roles, but the negatives always have their good as well as good has its bad.

Where do we start?

Let's think about the positives of being on your own.
1. You can do anything shamelessly and not get hassled. (Unless you live with someone.)
2. People respecting your own rules when in your home.
3. Bathroom is yours. (Many of us need this for whatever reason.)

Negatives:
1. Massive bills (CRAZY.)
2. No one cooking you breakfast. (Sorry mom.)
3. Longer time waiting for another big purchase. (Someday...Flat Screen HDTV.)

These might seem pointless but the next time you decide to do things your way and not the way people think you should go, be ready to prove your self more to your checking account then your so called "judgmental crew." The toll will wiegh heavier here than any type of opinion you feel you need approval.

Staying at home at any age for a little time is smart. You want to worry about getting laughed at or judged wrong? Mind yourself, the others will have their turn if they want to laugh now.

Save up your money. Whether you want to pursue a career in music (TONS OF EXPENSIVE EQUIPMENT), art (Books, Programs, Supplies, etc.), or even go back to school; it all takes a lot of sacrificing.

Nothing is wrong with wanting to better yourself if the intentions are for your own sanity. No one else will walk you through your life unless there's incentive for them to hold you.

Live smart. Pay the price. Get it right.

And that's Real Talk.

When is enough, enough?

Well when is it?

Sometimes the hardest thing to give up are things you care most about.
It's funny how we take the small things in life for granted and make such a huge deal about the big things we trash up anyways.

Think about priorities.
If you are handed something most of your life, the odds of you taking care of what you get are very slim, but not too rare...but somewhere near it.

If you worked hard your whole life, as you are meant to one way or another you start taking the value in things you own more seriously.

If this hasn't happened to you, it will. If it never gets to, lucky you.

What about the small things though?
Time spent with parents, siblings, or relatives. he time we have is borrowed. Give someone a call today. IT COULD BE ANYONE. Someone who appreciates the call more than someone who might end up calling you tomorrow anyways.

TAKE A BREAK.

Whether your in tough times or in a recent clash, take a break from the stress.
It's time to put more value into your eyes for the smaller things.

STRESS IS WEAKNESS.

Take a drive with your best friend(s), significant other, or someone you wouldn't mind sitting next to for the next hour or so. Take a road trip this year. It's not hot everywhere but that is no excuse.

NOT EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE ABOUT PARTIES AND SPRING BREAKS.

Everything in life is surely an experience. Some might be cool to you now, or you might get the short end of the stick when a small good time could lead to a long destroying self image. You are perfect the way you are, you don't need to be the center of attention to be the center of attention.
Sometimes even being the quiet one makes you the most desirable one.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE THINGS YOU THINK IS WHAT IS "IN".

Think about all the advice you give to your friends. Bad or good, we've all given out the bad before, which in turn can lead to some good for the night, but bad for the worrying mind for weeks if not months.

RELAX.

You think you're in a bad position now?
Some people are dying to make the same moves to get there.
That position?
A stupid decision.
Take the time to give out some good advice to your close people and so on.
Show them experience.
Take the time in doing some helpful work to get a smile.
I promise one smile created through your efforts will take place of 5 different bad things you had to do just to feel good for 10 minutes!

BE YOUR OWN PERSON AND DON'T SETTLE.

If you think you're in a tough spot where you might think about leaving who your with to catch some fling, just remember the consequences. Don't get bit. If you do, don't start to cry or whine. You asked for this. Then again if you know where you are is hard to let go, but you know if you stay you'll end up crying anyways. Leave. It's better for everyone. Trust me.
Take what you got, appreciate it and move on.

TAKE LIFE'S LESSONS AS A GUIDE.

Karma? Dejavu? Negative. Just Cause and Effect.
Life is a circle. One you have to deal with til it's over to continue onto the next.
You do dirt, you get dirt.
You plant seeds, you get crop.
We will meet over a million people in our lifetime, all with similar stories to that of yours, and ones that will cause you to break away from where you are and explore somewhere else.
Caught interest is deadly but can be 1000% positive if the right stuff comes your way.
The opportunity to go skiing in the mountains is great. Getting to overhaul your self on bad decisions, might cause damage.


The only thing I will say to you all is that you all have to make decisions to grow.
Everyone wants to experience something. Temptation is our biggest enemy at times.
Eating that fudge brownie when you know you've got a competition you;ve been working for months for. No one's saying don't eat the brownie, but you need to relax on how many of them you ate. One won't hurt. Five will. I only say this because of facts in nutrition you can easily get from the box.

Everyone needs to see thigns for themselves.

Sometimes knowing you neighbors experience an give you a good ideas of what to expect.

SIT DOWN AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO DO.

LIFE IS NO GAME TO CHEAT IN.
YOU WILL ALWAYS LOSE WHEN YOU CHEAT AT ANYTHING.
(It just may take a little while to occur)


Don;t take no for an answer when you want a yes. But don;t tist arms to get it.
THERE'S ALWAYS TOMORROW TO START OVER.


WHO SAID YOU HAD TO WAIT?
(oh right...you're still on that vacation in the mountains....well maybe right after that)

Once again readers I thank you all for taking the time to check this out.
Real Talk is pro-life. Due to experience in what the opposite actions might turn into, this is why it is how it is.

And that's Real.