When is enough, enough?

Well when is it?

Sometimes the hardest thing to give up are things you care most about.
It's funny how we take the small things in life for granted and make such a huge deal about the big things we trash up anyways.

Think about priorities.
If you are handed something most of your life, the odds of you taking care of what you get are very slim, but not too rare...but somewhere near it.

If you worked hard your whole life, as you are meant to one way or another you start taking the value in things you own more seriously.

If this hasn't happened to you, it will. If it never gets to, lucky you.

What about the small things though?
Time spent with parents, siblings, or relatives. he time we have is borrowed. Give someone a call today. IT COULD BE ANYONE. Someone who appreciates the call more than someone who might end up calling you tomorrow anyways.

TAKE A BREAK.

Whether your in tough times or in a recent clash, take a break from the stress.
It's time to put more value into your eyes for the smaller things.

STRESS IS WEAKNESS.

Take a drive with your best friend(s), significant other, or someone you wouldn't mind sitting next to for the next hour or so. Take a road trip this year. It's not hot everywhere but that is no excuse.

NOT EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE ABOUT PARTIES AND SPRING BREAKS.

Everything in life is surely an experience. Some might be cool to you now, or you might get the short end of the stick when a small good time could lead to a long destroying self image. You are perfect the way you are, you don't need to be the center of attention to be the center of attention.
Sometimes even being the quiet one makes you the most desirable one.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE THINGS YOU THINK IS WHAT IS "IN".

Think about all the advice you give to your friends. Bad or good, we've all given out the bad before, which in turn can lead to some good for the night, but bad for the worrying mind for weeks if not months.

RELAX.

You think you're in a bad position now?
Some people are dying to make the same moves to get there.
That position?
A stupid decision.
Take the time to give out some good advice to your close people and so on.
Show them experience.
Take the time in doing some helpful work to get a smile.
I promise one smile created through your efforts will take place of 5 different bad things you had to do just to feel good for 10 minutes!

BE YOUR OWN PERSON AND DON'T SETTLE.

If you think you're in a tough spot where you might think about leaving who your with to catch some fling, just remember the consequences. Don't get bit. If you do, don't start to cry or whine. You asked for this. Then again if you know where you are is hard to let go, but you know if you stay you'll end up crying anyways. Leave. It's better for everyone. Trust me.
Take what you got, appreciate it and move on.

TAKE LIFE'S LESSONS AS A GUIDE.

Karma? Dejavu? Negative. Just Cause and Effect.
Life is a circle. One you have to deal with til it's over to continue onto the next.
You do dirt, you get dirt.
You plant seeds, you get crop.
We will meet over a million people in our lifetime, all with similar stories to that of yours, and ones that will cause you to break away from where you are and explore somewhere else.
Caught interest is deadly but can be 1000% positive if the right stuff comes your way.
The opportunity to go skiing in the mountains is great. Getting to overhaul your self on bad decisions, might cause damage.


The only thing I will say to you all is that you all have to make decisions to grow.
Everyone wants to experience something. Temptation is our biggest enemy at times.
Eating that fudge brownie when you know you've got a competition you;ve been working for months for. No one's saying don't eat the brownie, but you need to relax on how many of them you ate. One won't hurt. Five will. I only say this because of facts in nutrition you can easily get from the box.

Everyone needs to see thigns for themselves.

Sometimes knowing you neighbors experience an give you a good ideas of what to expect.

SIT DOWN AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE ABOUT TO DO.

LIFE IS NO GAME TO CHEAT IN.
YOU WILL ALWAYS LOSE WHEN YOU CHEAT AT ANYTHING.
(It just may take a little while to occur)


Don;t take no for an answer when you want a yes. But don;t tist arms to get it.
THERE'S ALWAYS TOMORROW TO START OVER.


WHO SAID YOU HAD TO WAIT?
(oh right...you're still on that vacation in the mountains....well maybe right after that)

Once again readers I thank you all for taking the time to check this out.
Real Talk is pro-life. Due to experience in what the opposite actions might turn into, this is why it is how it is.

And that's Real.